This morning the world seems brand new. There's a peace in my heart, like the weight of a thousand mountains has been lifted. I can't even put it into words. The best joys are the ones we don't fully understand, and this is definitely one of them.
Part of it is the weather. I swear, it's like springtime again down here in The South, and right in the middle of this dark, cold, damp, depressing time of year it's just what I needed.
This time last week I felt so helpless. My wife quit her job three years ago when I was first diagnosed with cancer. She gave up a career to get me through that mess, and when we came out the other side, I was cancer-free and still breathing, but we were going broke with a quickness and in the middle of a recession, in a small town with no real job prospects for her. She is not the type of person who is happy being at home, and it's been a stress on her, and by extension our relationship, family, etc.
With Christmas coming, and the bank accounts bone dry, the best I've been able to do is whatever possible to keep my own job, and that's meant bending over backwards, working insane overtime (unpaid, on salary!). Over half my co-workers have been laid off and their IT jobs shipped overseas this year, so when the company says "jump", you gotta do what you gotta do as they say.
The icing on the cake was that I've not been able to dress in months and months. Before this whole episode kicked off three years ago, I used to dress most days while my wife was at work (I work from home, and so -- yeah -- at one time my situation was a CD's dream).
Yes, I know I should come out to her, etc. I've been scolded on this point before, but there are realities of that situation I'm not prepared to face, and I'm more than content for the moment to keep it privately in the closet.
This post is taking longer than I intended to get to the point ... my wife finally found a job. Out of the blue got a call for an interview at the end of last week, and today is her first day.
It seems unbelievable, but I think everything is going to be ok. For the first time in years ... this morning, the world is electric, like the first breath after being in a coma.
I've shared so many frustrations and sorrows with you all. I wanted to share this joy with you all as well. Thanks for reading :-)