Many folks here on the Forum express how they want to dress in such a way so as to blend in with everyone else, don't stand out and people won't give them a second look. I'm not so sure that is I want, however. Upon due consideration of this subject, I think I'm okay with the not standing out part but like any woman I appreciate when I'm noticed for being a bit striking and someone gives me a compliment. In that case I'll graciously accept it and not burst the compliment giver's bubble. After all bringing some beauty and niceness into the world and making someone's day is partly what it's all about, right?