❤ I am a cross dressers wife. He/she came out to me, so to speak about 6 months or so after both our second marriages. When she came out I guess I wasn't shocked it just seemed to make sense in so many areas of our marriage I had been confused about. I was supportive and positive and encouraged him to be open and honest and just share it with me so i could understand and be the supportive wife he needed and i love him just as much as the day I married him if not more but as time has gone on I have more questions but I don't feel I can ask now as I don't want to alienate him or cause us marital problems or worse for him to lock her away then be sad and I just want to be as supportive as I can as no matter what as i do love him. I had a disastrous first marriage to a homophobic racist horrible man and that's just not who I am as a person I accept everyone...you treat me right I'm your friend for life!!! The only thing I asked my husband was if he went on sites...spoke to others.... cross dressers/ men etc was that we did it together so I didn't feel excluded or he was cheating or I could loose him which I feel was a reasonable request. But I know he has and I accept maybe he's trying to figure it all out too but I feel so insecure especially when there is no sex in our marriage or not as much as I would like....unrealistically I'd love it twice a day but realistically as he has a high powered stressful job so at least every second night would be acceptable!!! But sometimes a week or two can go by with nothing but maybe i want too much and i need that closeness to feel that i am safe as far as not loosing him and still the centre of his world and believe me there's more and better sex when he becomes his alter female ego so I'd support that any day for the closeness and honesty and love and happiness it brings us both. I guess I want to hear from others their experience their advice their support I can't tell another soul I'd never betray him so I come here as an anonymous woman to seek support and understanding and help to support the man/ woman I love and if I do anything or say anything wrong please forgive me it's not intended I'm just so new at all of this I'm not sure what's right or wrong... thank you xxx