I find it interesting that most of the responses to the OP's original question center around finding another CDer to hang out with and for mutual support. I must be the odd duck here, then, as this holds no particular interest for me.
That said, it's one thing to bond anonymously with other CDers on forums such as this to share life experiences, give and solicit advice, and to find solace in the fact that one is not alone in this strange trip. But whenever I am out and about in "Leslie" mode, I try to blend in to the best of my ability but let's face it - when one is out in public with a bunch of other crossdressers, the odds of being "read" and possibly attracting negative attention increase exponentially with the number of people in the group. Others might be O.K. with that, but it is not my cup of tea.
My holy grail would be to find a GG who could be a BFF to me, and who would do "real" girl stuff with me in the way a "gal pal" would. Not for the purpose of having an affair, and nothing sexual (I am deeply committed to my marriage) - just a platonic relationship and someone to go shopping or have a "girl's night out" with in a "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" kind of way as Cyndi Lauper puts it in her iconic song.
I have come close to that with the GG make up artist that I see on a semi-regular basis, and part of the fun of these makeovers is for me to be treated just like any other GG customer of hers while I am there, along with the requisite "girl talk". Heck, she even seems to almost forget that I am not a real GG when she starts to veer into TMI territory including confiding in me regarding her past struggles with depression, and how going through menopause is such a bumpy ride for her.
Now if only I could find a GG "gal pal" along the same lines to accompany me on my outings as well as appreciate what I could bring to the table from a CDer's perspective...