Being stuck on the edge if the fence one foot in a boot and the other trying to figure what shoe or heel to wear. After contacting a few therapists and none seeming to want to help because of a lack if insurance. The SO seeming to everyday be hinting her distain for CD/trans world. The every surmounting fact that one will never be passable when it really does matter to ones own self. The facts are that inside you feel like you let everyone down who is around you mom dad wife kids friends business relations. Its a wonder that anyone can do the transition much less tell anyone in their own personal life is amazing.
I sit on this fence knowing there is no way to sit on it. The fact that I will bit let my wife or kids down or hurt them brings the fact up I have responsiblities what right do I have to do this? My love of them and their well being maybe stronger than my feelings of being someone I am not. Fighting the urge to price cause this will never work. Bury it again under twice as much this time.
How have yall done it ? How do just throw life to the wind? I so want my SO to accept I want to let out the bear that eats at me. I really thought talking it out on here would help. Not sure that it has helped me undestand myself. I relate so much to so many stories and I so enveious of those that are transitioning and already done.
Sorry for the dark side. Having a rough two days.
Steph