My last therapy appointment I ***** girl pants, bra, and black tank top. I was dressed in fem except a male black coat, no wig or makeup. When my wife and I where in the therapy session she asked my wife how she felt about what I was wearing and my wife said that I needed to make up my mind that if I was going to dress like that I needed to come out. She said it wasen't fair if my kids saw me like this and didn't know ahead of time, and found out this way. My goal is to come out to family and friends I HATE this secerat hiding in the house. I dressed to go to my therapy appointment because it felt like a safe place. I told my wife that just because I dressed for my therapy appointment doesn't mean I have to come out. So we spent most of the session on that topic. My therapist said that I should think about coming out to a close friend first, I'm scared.I would love the freedom to dress when I want and not have to worry about someone seeing me and telling my kids. At this point I don't plan on going full time, if I did I don't think my wife would deal with that very well. I just need a little advice I want to come out but the thought of doing that is very scary. Help Hugs Janelle