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Thread: Fantasy question: your dream girl- would you choose to be WITH her or BE her?

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    I never really think about a "dream girl," but I would want such a girl to have different psychological characteristics than me. A relationship in which the two of us complete and balance each other. So, I would want to be WITH her. As her lesbian partner.
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    I'd love to transform into my dream woman for a while. Nothing permanent, just in my fantasties.

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    Tough question. Can I be with her as a girl? ;P If so, I'd choose to be with her, because, if I were her, I would simultaneously wish to be with her at the same time. :|
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    I would choose to be her.
    You will become stronger in the ways of the Pink Fog. May the Pink Fog guide you and be with you now and forever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by monalisa View Post
    I would want to be her and to experience everything a girl can.
    This goes for me too! I would want to be her permanently!
    I'm always a woman!

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    I have always wondered what it would be like to be a GG. Not to the extent that I would like to transition but if I could change for 1 night then I would! just curious I guess.But we all know what curiosity did it killed the cat, fantasy is one thing reality is another.

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    if i werent a man, i definitely wanted to be a woman. even now, as i crossdress i think i am a woman, so i am making the most of my sexuality

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    Easy answer, I'd want to be her.


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    I'd love to do both! However, if I HAD to choose...I'd probably rather BE her, just because I've been with hot women...when else would you get to experience BEING a woman?

    That woman I'd want to BE, by the way? It would either be Jenna Louise Coleman, Taylor Vixen, Katy Perry or Claire Sinclair. Perfect scenario, I'd want to BE any of those women and BE WITH any of the remainders! Or all of them!

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    I choose... Door Number 3!

    I choose... Door Number 3... own her wardrobe! I wouldn't want to be Vanna, wouldn't want to be with Vanna (now that I'm married, when I was single, it was different...), but I would love to own a wardrobe with the kinds of things she gets to wear. I know she doesn't own them - but I want to!!!!!

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    Since the question is total fantasy, the answer is a no-brainer . . . I would, of course, want to BE her. That, however, requires some clarification: The way I"m percieving the scenerio is that I'm walking down the street, and I see, say, Tia Leoni, and suddenly a bolt from above comes down, and POOF!, I'm an attractive female, not transitioning from a male. I would magically have mindset, experiences and social conditioning of a GG. The downside would be, however, as Beverly put it:

    Quote Originally Posted by Beverley Sims View Post
    I would rather be her, but if I was I would probably be in sooooo! much trouble.
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    I was thinking like a "Freaky Friday" or "Switch" movie but you may not get switched back.

    As long as I knew I could switch back when I wanted to, I'd love to switch at least for a while.

    Otherwise, I'd rather be with her.
    Last edited by Sometimes Steffi; 01-29-2013 at 05:47 AM.
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    Mila Jovovich - Be with her... plus she can save me when Umbrella Corp takes over the world.

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    Easy answer; maybe.I would want to be her if i had a choice since personally i'm not attracted to women sexually.

    However, being a woman with a woman's psyche and hormones sounds tough especially considering she's a hot, dream girl (even though it is just fantasy realm).Sometimes i think the reality of being a very hot woman especially a young woman might not always be as easy and fabulous as i might imagine in my fantasies.

    I recently saw a program reviewing the lives of the Miss UK winners of a few decades back and well i sometimes think that women who are physically attracitve but don't look like supermodels have happier lives.

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    Billie- I'm with you.I am never going to be a woman, but I do - I think - to a certain extent - have at least some of the compassion and empathy that genetic women share, and by doing so, make the world a better place in which to live.

    My wife and I were discussing this this afternoon, and I said to her that I find the stereo typical alpha male abhorrent. I believe that humanity needs macho males just as much as it needs girly girls. However, for me, the extremes in either direction are abhorrent. Can I go do my nails now? Bloody keyboards!
    If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got!

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    If I could be her for a day, that would be a much more unique experience than being with her. Not to mention something that I have thought about since I was a child.

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    my dream girl would be and is my wife, i would also like to be my wife but she deserves better than me.
    so i would be someone like diane keaton or condeleeza rice.

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    I've been kicking this idea around since I was a young teen. I loved to look at catalogs of women's things (with models) , and when I got a new one, I would ask myself to pick one to be, and one to have. I both cases, it's all fantasy because 1) it's based only on appearance, and 2) it ain't gonna happen anyway. I still do this - it's a fun exercise.

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    This is funny. I've been thinking of starting just this topic. And here it is. I always think of being her. This happens alot. But then you make me come back and there would be such sadness. Can I be her any time I want?
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    Well I'm already with my dream girl, my wife.

    My 2nd best dream girl I would rather be her for as long as possible provide it did not mess up being with my no 1 dream girl.

    When I am out and about and I see an ordinary woman probably about the same age as me or a bit younger I would like to be them perhaps for a day or two. Bit like Quantum Leap

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    Considering this is merely fantasy, I would want to be my dream TS girl with my GF. However, this would only be in a bedroom situation.
    I think I feel more like Natalie than I do Kat. I think from this point I will go by Natalie.

    Part of a recently ended relationship where a reason why it ended was my crossdressing.

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    I dont actually want to BE a female. I'd just want to be WITH her.

    My dream GG is Megan Good...

    My dream TG is Miriani Ribero (I cant spell her name to save my life but yeah...she's a TG pornstar)

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    Um, something you failed to mention is that FEmales in general have a much harder time geting to "the promised land" than men. I have to wonder how many who said that they would want to be FEmale, [for whatever length of time] consider that fact?

    And as far as "being with a woman" - ANY woman - for a night simply based on attraction and nothing else? It simply ain't gonna happen for me. I need more than that.
    Last edited by Wildaboutheels; 02-15-2013 at 01:29 PM. Reason: last para added

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