Before i start saying whats on my mind, let me say im not trying to ruffle anyones panties( of course some that i own already have cute ruffles in them) or put anyone down.
With that being said my question is why are a lot of us so scared or secretive about being cds? Like of course i understand the SO situation about them not accepting you or losing them to it. But im talking more like why are so many of us in the closet cds? I mean why cant we if we feel like it , put on our heels get all dolled up and go out whenever we please?! Why should we feel uneasy or scared to step out of our house. Even if your not passable , i mean if we enjoy doing something shouldnt we be able to do it. Especially since are girly side is part of who we are. Really whats the worst that could happen? We go out maybe get some weird looks, laughed at or snickered at. But why let that bother us. We are all adults we shouldnt let others stop us from dressing or enjoying what we do. What if when they laugh we just smile and have confidence and keep doing what we do not caring what sociwty thinksi bet they wouldnt laugh or stare anymore cus they know it wouldnt bother us and maybe we would be more accepted right? So in closing all im saying is maybe we should care less about what society thinks and lets all step out of are comfort zone. U never know you might enjoy it. For those of you that already do i give you credit and i know u inspire a lot of us.