The forum is a microcosm of life Freddy.
Each of us sits on the bank of the river watching everyone float by while we are also in the river floating by them.
Think of the thousands of people who have passed through your life even if it was only passing them on the sidewalk.
All of humanity as "Ships passing in the night"
It is an illusion to think they really have left because like a pebble thrown in a still pool of water that sends ripples in all directions we touch and change each other in ways often beyond our own awareness or understanding.
Life is a river that is always flowing that we are born into and than leave upon death but the river even though always changing is still changed by the time we have spent in it so nothing is lost.
The question is only how we want to ride the river of life while we are in it and in that ride how we want to try and change it and in the changing of the river be changed by it.
Sensitivity creates the desire for a certain measure of solitude because for creatures like us life can be "to much" sometimes and this can leave us to much "outside" the river we are meant to be a part of.
We were created to create the river of life to serve the deeper purposes of life which is the support of this river which is a flow of ever changing consciousness that our consciousness is part of.
When we become to far removed from this river we suffer loneliness which is the rivers way of calling us back.
I came to the forum "was changed" and went back to the river to make my contribution to it but yet I have never left.
All the gifts that I realized from here changed me to than be able to offer gifts to others.
I cannot explain on this forum what I'm doing but I'm helping others that I would not be able to help if I first had not evolved into what the forum helped me become which really was nothing more than seeing what I already was but needed to see through other peoples eyes to understand so I could stop resisting that which I feared to than allow for the "becoming" I had been resisting.
If you would like to write a piece here is a challenge to your imagination. It is a riddle.
When is a crossdresser no longer a crossdresser even though he still crossdresses. (Nothing to do with being TG/TS)