So my fiance knows and you has intellectually acknowledged that this is always going to be a part of me. But with that said it is strictly don't ask don't tell.
I want to talk more. I don't think she knows how far I have gone (clothes wig make-up)
With all that said I am terrified of bringing it up. It will not be good. But I wonder if part of it is my own fear that makes it seem worse both in anticipation and during the actual "discussion".
So my question is.. "is may own fear making things seem/feel worse than they really are?"
Thoughts?