I have been seeing my current GF for nearly a year now and it has been wonderful. She knows all about Allie and has been quite accepting and supportive. Last weekend we attended our first Tri-Ess meeting together. I was a member about 10 years ago, and took my ex wife to one meeting - it did not go well. The new GF was quite comfortable, enjoyed herself and encouraged me that we BOTH should become more involved! I expected a better reaction than from my Ex, but my current GF blew me away! Afterwards we had a great conversation about us, how CDing works in our relationship, etc... We both agreed it was one of our best weekends yet! We plan to join our local chapter and become involved.....
After 7 years of divorce, I can say now it IS better the second time around. And yes, we are planning to get a place together soon!