An area of CDing that fascinates me, perhaps because there are no logical answers, is that of the late onset cross dresser. Early onset CDers describe early memories of trying on clothing of the opposite gender, usually that of a family member. Late onset CDers, generally do not associate any specific event but there must have been some thinking that went into the decision to try on, in the case of MtF, women's clothing. What was it? What were the events going on in your life at that time? Was there a traumatic event, a happy event.....what? Was there a libido change? It does not seem that one day you just decided to put on a pair of stockings or panties or whatever. Maybe the IRS threatened to audit you! (Sorry. Spent part of the day doing taxes.). Was this a latent desire that was strongly suppressed and then released by reading something or an event?
So many questions. Any answers?