My wife an I had a heart to heart talk a week or so ago and it feels like an entirty. She told me about how she dislikes it and doesn't want to see me dress like a women especially around our children. But she is willing to give me some time once a month. I told her ok but I didn't mean it I wqnt to dress at least once a week and wear my corset as often as I can. Right now all I can think about is putting on my corset and walking around in my heels. The urges are hard to resist. I do have much patience and need a whole bunch right now. As for my corset now all is lost. I'm still losing weight so I'm maintaining my figure.