There was a thread a while back about seeing beautiful girl and wanting to be her or to be with her
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...-her-or-BE-her
So, let's switch it around.
Fantasy question: your dream guy - would you choose to be him or BE with him?
So if you see a really attractive guy, whatever that means to you, sometimes I think, "Oh man, I would love to be him for a night". But, for some of us, the alternative pops into our mind, "Oh man, I would love to BE with him (as a date, or sexually) for a night!".
What's your choice? For me, it's to be me, but if I had to choose, it would be to be him. I think most guys would love to be Tom bardy for a day. I would.