I just went through the responses in a thread in the loved ones section.
Quick survey for GG's of CDers
I saw so many SO's of cds that were supportive, and saying how much they indeed liked that aspect of their love. This really raised my hopes.
I sooo want to again find another female that will be not just open, but LOVE what I do, and realize it is an aspect of me that is unique and hurts no one.
I know my ex loved that aspect of me, but I do think her friends (jealous types) fed her with the line "if you're going to date a man, he should look like a man." When she said that to me after all the times she stated how hot I was and feeling me up, and then following on vacation to Vegas with a man hater, she spouts off with that. It was a dagger to the heart that I never want to suffer again.