OMG what just happened?

[Samantha B L]

Hi Tracii, Most of my LGBT/TG/TS/CD freinds don't agree with me about this. That's their right. I think all LGBT/TG/TS/CD tendencies are in part rooted in inherited predispositions and those are in stuff like brain function and hormones. I know there are mental health professionals and research scientists who think so. This means you can shell out bus fare to send a gay teenager to boot camp and it ain't gonna work. Or you can force a crossdresser to cut it out and they will go back to it 6 months later. It always happens. The point is why try to force LGBT/TG/TS/CD people to quit it when they are only letting nature take it's course and they ain't suffering from some diabolical,sinister,psychological problem. I've had lots of liasons with guys. At the same time I have this irresistable thing for women's clothes. And you've all heard me talk about my girlfreind who died in 2005 so I won't bore all of you girls with that. Tracii,unless you're in a relationship with someone else,give it a whirl. You only live once!


salu, Samantha

[daviolin]

This is like the first High School date. How exciting. Be good Tracii. Daviolin

[PertyX]

Sounds like fun, Traci!

Mind you, the way you described how you looked is super-cute. Can you blame the guy?

X

[Nicole Erin]

Even if nothing else comes of it, at least let the restaurant know he is doing a good job with customer service.
Give it a shot. Even though most new acquaintances just turn out to be casual, sometimes actual friendships come of it. Or, maybe you have a new mate. Of course don't be real shocked if "Tracii" doesn't appeal to his tastes.

[Paula T]

What I wouldn't give to have something like that happen for a "mature" gal such as I.

[Beverley Sims]

I hope you are able to become good friends and share your life experiences without getting in too deep.

[withasmile]

Yes - you did say you were in a hetero relationship... Why would you go further with this? Would your SO understand or be hurt?

[cathie pantyhose]

Sounds like it will be a fun weekend for you. If I had the courage to go out dressed half that way, I always wonder what would happen.

[Tracii G]

My current relationship is a very open one we are best friends for the most part and not sexual partners.
We are free to explore with whomever.
Withasmile and Reine I see where you are coming from if we were in a sexual relationship I would have not taken his offer.
By hetero I meant guy and girl so I can see why you asked the question.
I will be very open with him and explain everything for sure.I will ask if he is in a relationship too so there is no confusion.
Its just a date at this point and not expecting too much.
He knows I will be enfemme because its the same night as my trans group meeting.
When I said Sat he knew so I think he seemed fine with it.

[withasmile]

It was just a bit confusing. I would say then you really aren't in a relationship. Anyway, have fun!

[Tracii G]

It was just a bit confusing. I would say then you really aren't in a relationship. Anyway, have fun!

I can see where it would be confusing because of the way I stated that.

[paulaprimo]

could you let me know if he has a brother...

[Lori B]

see.....I told ya you got what it takes

[Marlana]

Tracii, way to go. That had to be so exciting. I'm happy that it was a good first step. Please keep us updated if you can.

[Tracii G]

Oh I will post on how it goes Ha ha.

[insearchofme]

In the book "The Godfather" they described what happened to you as getting struck by the "Lightening Bolt". Good fro you!

[Tracii G]

It was something that has never happened to me I will say that.
Even being married twice that didn't happen in the beginning.
There was a deff connection.
Just going to play it by ear and see what happens.If I gain a friend out of it all so be it.

[becky77]

I have never known a connection like that so all I can say is you HAVE to go with it. Where ever it leads it was a special moment and you could find a wonderful friend out of this or possibly more.
I hope it all goes well for you

[Aylineira]

OMG everybody chill out, you're all gushing like little school girls!

So... Tracii got any pics of him or what??

[Tracii G]

Not yet but I will try to snap one with his permission of course.
I won't be able to post it here I'm sure due to the rules.

[Tracii G]

Wish me luck on my date he wants to take me to a club for some Rock and Roll I'm stoked!!
Wardrobe change at the last minute but thats OK.

[KatieGG]

Good luck Tracii. Remember what I taught you!! lol

[Tammy Nowakowski]

Good luck Tracii and have fun

[Michelle M]

Tracii, you look great. Have fun!

[Tracii G]

What a FANTASTIC night had a blast !!!
I was treated like I was the only girl in the club.He was sooo attentive to my every need.
His friends were really nice too the couples we met there were so nice to me.
When we got there 2 of the girls said hi and I don't think they knew right off the bat I was a guy.Jeremy said he looks nice huh? The girls did a double take and looked me over.They figured it out then.One squealed and took my hand and said honey you look fabulous AND have the hottest guy in the place.LOL
The GG's treated me like one of their own, we giggled and joked around all night.
Jeremy looked so handsome and I had a few swoon times I won't lie LOLOLOL.
One of the GG's was watching me and she said OMG girl you have it so bad for Jeremy don't you?
I said its our first date but yeah he is smoking hot isn't he?
I had a few dances with him and he kissed me during one of the slower songs wow pretty much says it all.When he kissed me our whole table let out a huge "Lip lock him GF!!!"
And a few whoops and hollers.
I danced with a few of the girls and that was fun too those girls are crazy fun to be with.
So to sum it all up I had a great date night!!