I was walking through a store saturday and overheard two girls that were stocking shelves making fun of a crossdresser that had come in earlier. She said he asked for her help finding some things. she helped him and he left and then they were making fun of him after he left. It makes me wonder the few times i have asked for help do they do that after I leave? I was very disturbed and though about giving it all up. However I enjoy it too much. I just have to find a store to buy in that is nice about it.