^this pretty much describes it, though I don't use 'drab' to describe my male clothing, as women seem to find it rather attractive (you don't have to look plain if you don't want to; a man in a fine suit of clothes, with good posture and presence, will stand out virtually anywhere he goes). But I don't try to adopt female behavior or mannerisms, I'm not trying to convert myself into something else. Again to quote Popeye, 'I yam what I yam'. I look at my male clothing as a uniform that I have to wear to work and get through life with the least amount of aggravation; nothing more, nothing less.