When I first joined here I had finally accepted myself as TG. I really wanted to help others accept themselves too, be it CD/TG and now TS.
A recent PM with another member made me realize the only one that can help you is you. This forum is a great place to feel accepted but only you can learn to accept yourself. So I guess this is my reality check that I can't help like I thought I could. We can't change what the world thinks of us or how they react to us but we can try to help you. In the end it's up to you to take the information and advice given here and use it or not.
Reality check over.