My GF was having a discussion with a group of 14 and 15 year olds, about 5 or 6 of them in, lets call it a teaching role. The subject was about Gender Identity, and Sexual Orientation. There was another lady there, who is known to them as Lesbian, ( or is that BI? can't remember )
One of the more interesting comments from one of the girls was that the nature of her genitals, and her orientation is nobody else's business unless they were actively trying to date her. ( Very adult and clear thinking comment to my mind ) At one point of the discussion, my GF mentioned "A very dear friend" "Who is straight, but likes to wear womens clothes"
Their response was the same as hers when i told her. "Oh Cool!"
In some places it seems there is hope.