Curious thing about this. I've come to find that it's no biological "crap shoot" why we were born the way we were. Having the feelings and insights we have is a gift but it's up to each person to realize that and decide how far to develop it. I cannot imagine being any other way than the way I am, the way I have always been. THAT is what seems right and natural to me. The bottom line is that we are all unique beings regardless of how anyone tries to label us.