Hey everyone.
To sum up a few things about myself:
- I've been crossdressing in home, privately for 3 years
- My gf knows, accepts, and loves it.
- I've sent pics to a few online friends before and they claim I pass as female looks-wise (not sure if just being kind, or are telling the truth. lol)
- I've never been out in public while CDing.
Now, it's always been a dream of mine to go out in public while in girl-mode. Luckily my gf is very supportive and is the best person ever for me, I love her so much! While she is supportive, she's also not willing to let our friends/family know about this hobby/interest of mine/ours, which I can agree to. It's a very private thing for both of us.
So, because of this, she's a little worried about going out in public (ie, someone we know may see us, recognize us, ect), especially with our car. Now, from my perspective, I figured the car would be a bonus if anything because we could drive around in the car, feeling safe, not HAVING to interact with anyone, ect. But she's worried people will recognize the vehicle.
Can anyone give any tips on our first time out with my dressed as a girl? We have brainstormed and came up with the following ideas and thoughts:
- Have her disguised also, she could wear a wig and some cloths that she normally doesn't wear.
- We could leave the house dressed normally and drive somewhere to change into our "alternate" looks, but where? No idea. :/
- We could try and disguise the car a bit, put up temporary decorations in it to throw people off and such.
- We could drive to a new area that we don't normally go to, but she basically knows someone in every town here and all of the cities in my area aren't that big honestly. :/
Any further tips? I still have to work on my female voice a lot to pass completely, but if we're in a car I won't run the risk of having to talk to anyone just yet.
Thanks to anyone who reads my topic, and super thanks to anyone who can offer some advice! Share what has worked for you and what hasn't!
Update: I would also like opinions on something that just came up.
My gf and I were just talking about our first time out while dressed, and for the first time she's now thinking "I don't really want to do this anymore". I'm not sure if it's the nerves of finally making detailed plans instead of just casually mentioning "Let's do this someday!", "Yeah totally! That'd be fun! ". She was fine with the idea before, but now she's just really worried about being found out or caught in public. Even in a whole other City where we know no one.
I'm not going to force her to do anything she doesn't want to, and I see things from her point of view.
Has this happened to anyone else before, if so is there any suggested ways to get past hesitation or safer ways to go about doing what we want(ed) to do? Maybe she could sign up to the forums herself and talk to other GG's of CDers and seek advice? We'll see.
Thanks again.