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    "I can't take anymore"

    "I can't take anymore", is what my closet is now telling me.

    For the first time in my entire life of 44 years, I now understand the dilemma and frustration women go through in their quest to store their clothing. Until the pink fog hit, the only things in my closet were several pairs of jeans, t-shirts and... that's it. Oh yeah, and like three pairs of shoes, two running style and a formal pair for dressy occasions (3 in the last decade).

    As a guy in guy mode that's all I need and suits me well. But as Kalista, I NEED SPACE! Holy cow, I cannot believe how a few trips to Ross and some orders from Amazon has overpowered my closet. I want more....more....MORE SPACE!

    I may have to get a bigger apartment. Who else is running into this side effect of the pink fog?

    ~Kalista

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    Well, I own more women's shoes than men's shoes, more skirts and dresses than male slacks, and more on the way, so I guess I know the feeling.

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    I know your pain. Since I retired I have an ample wardrobe to last until I'm dead and gone. Plenty of dress slacks, dress shirts and ties. I'm down to two pairs of men's dress shoes, and, two pairs of athletic shoes. Maybe, eight sets of white tees and shorts, and, the same with black.

    On the other hand, I just bought a new Merona black and white print wrap dress which makes dress #97. I definitely have more undergarments than the boy in me. Over four hundred slips, scores of panties and bras. I need a closet, not just a bigger closet. All of the feminine garb is stored in 17 Zerox boxes and another large box in a night stand.

    I forgot the shoes... about eighteen pairs, which I understand may be not a record for some on this forum. But, for me that's an ample amount.

    Sometimes I think it was a great mistake to buy a computer. On line buying is sooooooooo easy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie47 View Post
    On line buying is sooooooooo easy.
    Lol, you do not lie. I have a pair of boots and China doll shoes en route still out in UPS land, and have no idea where I can put them. Ah the price of artistic expression and sexiness....

    -Kalista

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    I don't care what others say, life's too short, it's time to play.
    I'm a TGirl, yes it's true! I'm a TGirl, how 'bout you?

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    My side of the closet, is small any way, but 90% of it is my fem thing, I have more heels than shoes.

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    I just swapped my closet last week and put that other guys cloths in the back...Aimee has 95% of the closet and all but one drawer. I can't wait until I move back into my house which has two walk in closets.
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    I know what you mean I only have 2 pair of guy shoes but a few dozen shoes for Jodi Anne. I did not understand before why Imelda Marcos had 2700 pairs of shoes, now I do.
    I've come to the conclusion that it's none of my business what other people's opinion of me is.

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    The bottom line is that most women, including TG women never have enough clothes. Go figure on that one.
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    The size of the master bedroom closet was a key consideration in purchasing my current house!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalista Jameson View Post
    ..........I want more....more....MORE SPACE!
    I may have to get a bigger apartment. Who else is running into this side effect of the pink fog?
    ~Kalista
    It's amazing isn't it Kalista? Guy mode equals three draws for tops and stuff, and a small wardrobe for the rest. There is a double for work suits and shirts but won't count that. In approximately one year, Rebecca has already matched my 'Bob mode' requirement and has oozed into the spare room's double wardrobe. We were talking about moving for a bit more garden, but I think my major concern is that closet issue.......damn the FOG! Actually, I'm just gonna learn to live with it!

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    Yes, yes yes
    My main closet is overflowing with my things, as Amy.
    I need to sort it out and donate to the appropriate places.
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    not quite silver yet Emma Leigh's Avatar
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    Me too....I,ve got 3 bedrooms and every wardrobe is full of dresses, skirts and tops, drawers are full of underwear and I have the overspill in 3 suitcases. Guy stuff well thats 2 drawers worth and thats everything bar 1 suit and a jacket

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    I know this problem only too well. I have two wardrobes, one double for skirts and the other walk-in for dresses, blouses, cardigans and underwear. Both also have shoes in boxes on the shelving. The rest are in the loft on hangers. I now have almost 600 dresses, and the skirts have reached 999 with a policy of one in, one out. I think I have over 200 pairs of shoes and boots, and lots of tops in boxes in the spare room. One of the biggest challenges was how to store the jewellery - all the necklaces and pendants are on hooks inside the doors of the double wardrobe,and the earrings are in 3 hardware divided boxes, and the scarves (over 100) are on special 'hole' hangers in the walk-in. I absolutely love these clothes and spend most of my tiem in them. In fact today I reckoned that if a woman is under 30, I have probably spent more time in a skirt/dress or even a bra than her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by susan54 View Post
    I know this problem only too well. I have two wardrobes, one double for skirts and the other walk-in for dresses, blouses, cardigans and underwear. Both also have shoes in boxes on the shelving. The rest are in the loft on hangers. I now have almost 600 dresses, and the skirts have reached 999 with a policy of one in, one out. I think I have over 200 pairs of shoes and boots, and lots of tops in boxes in the spare room. One of the biggest challenges was how to store the jewellery - all the necklaces and pendants are on hooks inside the doors of the double wardrobe,and the earrings are in 3 hardware divided boxes, and the scarves (over 100) are on special 'hole' hangers in the walk-in. I absolutely love these clothes and spend most of my tiem in them. In fact today I reckoned that if a woman is under 30, I have probably spent more time in a skirt/dress or even a bra than her.
    200 pairs of shoes and 600 dresses? I bow before you, Susan! =) You must live in a clothing store, LOL.

    I need a drawer just for pantyhose, alone.

    ~Kalista

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    I love nylons and high heels, mini-skirts and shopping deals!
    I don't care what others say, life's too short, it's time to play.
    I'm a TGirl, yes it's true! I'm a TGirl, how 'bout you?

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    My femme attire has taken over my closet. I got rid of most of my male stuff and put up a whole new rod. I filled the empty space in no time. My closet floor is covered with femme shoes, and my chest of drawers has nothing but female clothing.

    The worst of it is, I don't have a thing to wear!

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    Preaching To The Choir !!

    Hi Kalista, You are preaching to the choir here I have three closets full.
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    Guilty as charged! Still need more closet space after expansion.

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    Welcome to the wonderful world of "woman-hood"!
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    Yep same problem here.

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    There is an old saying about how 20% of people do 80% of the work. Well in my world Ellen Jo gets out about 20% of the time but has 80% of the clothes. Seems fair to me.

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    Kind of a fun problem to have if you ask me....

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    Since I live alone I have converted one bedroom into a large walk-in closet on one side of the wall I hung some wire racks and a clothes rod. The other side has a couple of dressers that are full with lingerie and sweaters.
    Yes I have more than double the amount of clothes that my feminine self has over my male self. I enjoy using scented body wash, scented body lotion and use perfume. I don't use anything scented on my male side.

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    My problem is I'm having to get rid of some of my clothes as my DH, Nikki grows her wardrobe! One small walk in closet for 2 women and 1 man isn't working. And all the extra closets are being used by those pesky kids of ours. (:
    I do not understand why s/he needs 3 black skirts the same length though? Don't even get me started on the mess of shoes we have. 14 more years until the youngest two leave. Not sure our closet will make it.
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    Sometimes I think people like us should be banned from Ross and Goodwill, Macys and Zaks.
    And a lot of other places that push fashoin.
    Let's throw in Victorias Secret as well.
    Ban them all I say!
    Give us our closets back!
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Just a touch of class Lynn Marie's Avatar
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    What is so weird is that in boy mode, I'm happy to wear the same outfits over and over. No problem at all. In girl mode, once I've worn something I sort of relegate it to the back of the closet and don't want to wear it again! So my poor closet keeps growing. 27 skirts, 28 tops, 11 dresses, 2 sweaters, 3 dressing gowns, 15 pairs of heels, and miscellaneous jewelry, belts, lingerie, stockings, etc.
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