After folliwing this board for awhile and reading others' stories, I finally decided to go out dressed en femme. My plan was to stop by the gas station first and fill up just to get out of the car but I took the wrong route due to excitement and ended up directly at goodwill. I was nervous at this point. I switched parking spots as there was someone in the car next to me. I almost chickened out but decided I had gone too far to go back now. I then got out of my car!!!! A guy looked at me on my way in and I thought I was pegged, but then he looked the other way and went about his business. It was then that I thought I might be ok. I browsed the racks and caught myself occassionally in the full length mirror and loved what I saw. The attached pics are from the dressing room. I ended up buying the black dress.
There was a drug store next store so I decided to go in to see what would happen there. I strolled up an down a couple aisles, then ended up buying lipstick and a bottle of water. A couple of employees said hello and I responded in a soft voice and I had no problems cashing out.
The last stop (due to time constraints) was a busy gas station that had like 20 pumps. I could feel eyes on my but I felt like I was getting checked out. I had changed into the black dress I just purchased. Then for the clincher...I went inside the store and used the ladies room. There were 3 stalls and I did get a little worried that maybe I was breaking the law, so i didn't spend any extra time in there. Fortunately I was in there alone. On the way out the cashier told me to have a nice day and I responded you too.
So all in all...an excellent first time out. I can see how it can be addicting. I went shopping for women's clothes in drab this week and felt out of place whereas I've never had that feeling before. Thanks to all on this site who have given me encouragement and ideas of where to go on my first outing.