Besides don't ask don't tell, you need to understand what she is thinking. Does she think that once you are married she can change you? While many guys want their girlfriend to stay exactly the way they are the day they marry, Girls often think that once married they can shape their boyfriend into their dream guy.
If you are afraid that you will lose your fiance when you have "the talk", don't be.
If she accepts you and you can proceed to get married and have a happy life together, you will both be happy together.
If she doesn't accept you, and the two of you break up, then both of you will be happy apart.
Trust me on this.
All the best.
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