been dressing for most of my life. Wife and family members know about my clothing habits, and even got me items for chirstmas and birthday gifts. lately been having the urge to go male mode and when I do I get from my Wife "Are you ok? or hey you are not wearing a bra!" So now it seems if I dress it ok but when I just want to be male I have to explain why. so I feel stuck in fem mode
(be carefull what you ask for you just might get it ) keep going though my mind
WHEN IN STRESS WEAR A DRESS
BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF IT ALL YOU GOT
I'm not understanding the problem my friend. You can be whoever you want to be or wear whatever you want to wear you know.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Yeh, Maybe a little bit jealous here.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
Just remember the joy and delight train can easily be derailed.
Wear what you want when you want,remember others have probably got used to you dressing.
Do you want to destroy that image.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
And your problem is? You can still be "male mode" if and when you want.
Hugs, Carole
Oh my, many here wish they had your problem. They get "you want to wear what?" Congrat's on being in that kind of relationship.
To Dream of the Person you want to beIs to Waste the Person you are.
unknown
And like the song: What doesn't kill you, can't hurt you.
Yep, know that one also. I would imagine it's quite normal for us all at some point. I get caught up in gender disphoria and have to spend most of my time just dealing with it in a neutral way until it passes.
Just laugh at their suggestions and since you seem to have the choice, wear the clothing you want. They will have to relate to you, not what you are wearing and that's a good thing.
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
What A problem to have.
I'm starting to get a little bit of this...my fiancee will ask me "Are you getting into Amy mode?" when I wasn't planning on it. Be thankful, Missy! This shows how much your wife is really accepting your femme side.
- Amy
Amy Gale Ruth Bowersox (nee Tapie) - "Be who you are, and be it in style!"
Member, Board of Trustees, Gender Identity Center of Colorado
aka Amelia Storm - Ms. Majestic Hearts of All Colorado 2018-2019, Miss Majestic Hearts of All Colorado 2015-2016
GGs go braless & wear pants--why not you?
Lainie
You're only young once, but you can be immature forever!
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