My counselor stated that I "look" for women (when I was dating) that balance out my feminine side. Meaning I wouldn't marry a Barbie because that wouldn't balance out my feminine side since I'm somewhere in the middle between alpha male and female. I wasn't quite sure I agreed with that, while my current and hopefully last wife isn't a Barbie I have dated quite a few barbies, then I thought about the fact that I never told those barbies and the ones that knew were usually around middle of the road of Barbie/androgyny. Does this apply to anyone else? Was an interesting statement and was wondering the general validity of it.