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    Do Women actually like Men who Cross-Dress

    Hello Everyone , As you can see , I am relatively new here and am just finding my way around the forum at the moment

    One question I do have though is this....Do women and , in particular , straight women actually like crossdressing because , to be truthful , I have never actually met one that does awwww

    Sure , they may make allowances if there husband or boyfriend enjoys wearing however , in their heart , do you like it or simply put up with it , if they happen to love the person they are with and who is and always has been a crossdresser , maybe even before they met them ?

    I would welcome your replies and especially from females who do not , in essence , have a problem/issue with it

    Cheers for Now , Dave

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    Look around the Site ,, There are Female Members here that Love CDs ,, They joined this site for that reason !

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    of course... it seems more so with gen-x and younger... girls come up and talk to me more readily in girl mode than in guy mode... on another site that I frequent (about cosplay) it seems the response is mostly positive, especially if the presentation is well done

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    Just like anything else in life, there are those that do and those that don't.
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    Wish i could find one too

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    Hello Dave

    First of all welcome to the forum and thank you for being courageous and posting your question.

    I suspect that women dislike men who crossdress because it stirs up an inner conflict that I believe that they can't even answer. Just like crossdressing, there's doesn't seem to a concrete answer for why we do it. When a loved one is involved I believe that the only thing that overshadows thier conflict is love and that's why it is tolerated to some extent. Sometimes the mind makes decisions overpowering the heart and then that's when insanity becomes ruler. The mind can't handle it and causes rash decisions like divorce and disowning the loved one. Trust is a big factor, most often feel that it's a locomotive with the pedal to the metal without an engineer. Each relationship with a woman is very different and different strageties are required to deal with them which sometimes works and sometimes it doesn't.

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    that is good ? that no body really know but there is some vary spacil women out there

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    Stand at the bar on a busy night. They will approach you.

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    Absolutely, there are women out there who enjoy CDers. Until my BF I had never given it much thought. But he told me right at the very beginning of our relationship, before the love and commitment to each other really began. My first reaction was shock and then a twinge of excitement rose up my spine. He asked me what thought and if I thought he was a freak. In my mind I thought no not you but am I the freak for becoming excited over it. That was a little over 9 months ago and I can truly say I thoroughly enjoy his hobby!! He accuses me of being more excited about it than him sometimes....lol!! I tell him maybe.....I love clothes, shoes all things girly!!

    Everyone is different and enjoys different things. I told another member recently when she questioned what kind of magical force was on us GG's who accept and enjoy CDing SO's. My response was basically that there was unfortunately no magic over us. We liked what we liked just because we do, it's just like you and others on here like CDing there may be no other reason than that is simply what you enjoy doing and who you/they are. So liking it for us is just simply who we are. Like the old saying different stroke for different folks. So some will like it and others will not, but when you find the right one you will know it

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    Like so many other things, it depends on the particular woman.
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    Great answers here. It just depends on the woman. I especially liked the answers given from MysticLady and Sam. Those answers are the true answers.
    So the question do women like cross dressers? We can't say yes, we can't say no. It's just that some women do and some don't.

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    My wife really seems to enjoy me being dressed. Of course I still only wear a bra, panties, forms and pajamas. I don't do anything else at the moment. I'm probably one of the lucky ones though.
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    No! I'm still a proponent that except for a rare few.... women do not totally accept our crossdressing.... they tolerate it to varying degrees.... from 99% to -10%.... lol. My wife being nearer the lower number than the higher one....

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    Women seem to like men who cross dress more. It's other men who can't cope with it almost like letting the side down.

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    Hell Karen ,, If I looked as good as you do my Wife would do a back flip ,,lol,,,

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    I'll offer my wife's comment to me some time after I came out to her, "It's a little weird but does not bother me at all." In essence, she tolerates rather than "likes" it. I would also say that my wife has embraced my cross dressing but would rather that I was not a cross dresser. Kind of reasonable, actually.
    Last edited by Jenniferathome; 03-26-2013 at 10:55 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlceleste View Post
    Stand at the bar on a busy night. They will approach you.
    Celeste,
    I can agree with you there, it is curiosity, and if you make yourself interesting in conversation you most likely will hook up.

    Trouble is I am married and women ten years my junior want to ply me with drinks....
    A problem I have I am like Bat Man, I only drink milk and coke, not the sniffing variety.
    It is nice to hold their interest for a while though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by STACY B View Post
    Hell Karen ,, If I looked as good as you do my Wife would do a back flip ,,lol,,,
    Does she like doing back flips or just tolerate them? lol

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    That's the Answer we all would Love to know ,, Maybe the gender therapist can get it out of her ?

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    Hello Dave welcome to the forum
    My better half puts up with it

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    In my experience I've found that it's quite rare for ladies to accept & enjoy it....... unfortunately !

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    I find that most women are accepting as long as it is not their boyfriend or husband. I would like to find a woman who would like it like NurseSamGG does.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nylon45 View Post
    One question I do have though is this....Do women and , in particular , straight women actually like crossdressing because , to be truthful , I have never actually met one that does awwww
    Dave,
    Ask yourself this: 'Why would they?'

    Straight women are attracted to men. Masculine men. Thats the way it is. Straight men are attracted to women. Feminine women. Thats the way it is.

    Are you attracted to women that want to dress, look, and act like men? I dont just mean a woman in pants. Thats just mysoginistic M>F CDr thinking women are crossdressing (or getting to wear male clothing). Thats rediculous.

    I mean you, are YOU attracted to a woman that has a mans haircut, very masculine clothes, wears fake facial hair, binds her breasts so she appears flat chested, puts something in her pants to look like male genitals, tries to walk, act, and talk like a man? Im sure the answer is no - and for good reason - its just not what you want. So why would straight women want anything to do with a M>F CDr? Does it happen, yes. Many examples here. But this is a TINY percentage of the population. And most neither 'looked' to be in a relationship with a M>F CDr or is 100 percent OK with it. For the most part they love and accept the person underneath because the basic relationship was already established.

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    Hi, I would agree that some do and some don't. Recently on the local radio station the trivia question of the day was "What do 25% of women find very sexy when men do what?" The answer was shave their legs, so what about the other 75%, guess not. Hugs Jaymee

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    Quote Originally Posted by vivianann View Post
    I find that most women are accepting as long as it is not their boyfriend or husband. I would like to find a woman who would like it like NurseSamGG does.

    Hey,,,Hey Leave Nurse Sammy alone ,, I seen her first ,,,lol,,,

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