You're not rare for being into your SO and loving the CDing. Many GGs say they do, especially when they are told at the beginning, provided they are open-minded (also youth helps) like you are. I was equally enthusiastic in the beginning. I was told from the onset as well.
(And to be honest, it has also been my observation there is a "honeymoon stage".)
I was saying that it is rare for a GG to go out and actively, specifically seek a relationship with a CDer, since the vast majority of GGs know very little about it until they just happen to meet their first CDer. I also made an observation that of the tens of thousands members who have joined this forum, (of which hundreds or maybe even a thousand were GGs), only just a handful of GGs joined here specifically to meet a CDer. The vast majority of the other ladies, like you, have joined because they were in a relationship and were seeking either support or more information.
So, most GGs do fall for the guy first, and THEN they support, to various degrees of enthusiasm, the CDing. AFTER he tells them. IF they're really into him.
Having said that, NurseSam, you may well be in the 5% give or take a few percentages, that is into alternative gender expression and sexual orientations (the LGBTQ crowd). But still, this isn't most people.