I did it. Made a huge step. I have never been out in fem. Today I went to Victoria's Secret wearing lululemon yoga pants, uggs, and carrying a purse, from the west up I looked like a guy. When one of the sales girls asked if I needed help, I told her I wanted a new bra and she was happy to help me. She picked me out a couple bras in my size and then helped me pick out 3 pairs of panties. I was hoping to get measured but I was too nervous to ask but overall the 38B that I got fits very well. I also got the silicone shaping inserts, which are great. Got a few looks and akward smiles but overall everyone who I spoke to was nice and didn't bat an eye.