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Thread: CD/TG & Drag Queens. Couldn't come up with better title.

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    The Art of Heels Kristyn Hill's Avatar
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    CD/TG & Drag Queens. Couldn't come up with better title.

    And do not want to offend anyone. After stumbling on RuPaul's Drag Show Twitter last night, I went into the photos and I just do not see any of us on here emulating the Drag Queen look. I see so many more attractive girls in this community.

    Drag Queen make up is so different and the hair, so, so different. I guess Drag Queens are for entertaining and stage ready which calls for the dramatic styles.

    Are any girls here that present themselves as a girl also participate in the Drag Queen Field? Just Curious.

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    Re drag queens

    Hi Krystyn and thanks for the post. I've some thoughts to share on this.

    Now that I'm going out dressed on a regular basis. (twice a month) I'm going to a lot of trans/cd friendly spots in LA. Also going to just gay friendly places. Actually in LA CDs can go just about anywhere. It's such a creative and understanding city in that way.

    There are "drag" shows at some of the spots I visit. Usually it's an event at midnight. The drag look definitely has its place and it seems like a more theatrical statement of camp. It's a "show." It's much more outrageous and flamboyant. I've not met anyone in the CD community that embraces it as a regular style of dress. The gurls I meet are all trying to look their best and find their personal style that fits their personality and body type it seems. We're all trying to fit it to a degree.

    The drag queens are a different breed. They're more about putting on a show and they usually are. Two completely different approaches. Just my experience.
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    I'm sure there are some, but I do not count myself among them. Why? Well, I see drag as more of a caricature of women, rather than emulation. They emphasize female features in an over-the-top manner, that seems to appeal to men's idea of what femininity is. Of course, some go the opposite way, and call it feminine illusion. That is more my style - trying to look like a woman as much as possible. For me, it's so I am not noticed when I go out. If I went out as a drag queen, I feel that I would be spotted instantly, and would be sending a message different than the one I wanted to.

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    Drag queens first and foremost are performers. They are intending to be over the top and the term Kathi used caricature of women and i would agree with that.

    The only exception and whose style i kind of like is a German performer by the name of Sheila Wolf. I like her style.
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    Why is miss Wolf a DQ? See this gets into labels again. If a DQ is a parody, then the photos above aren't DQ. One term not used here is FI (female impersonator). This was a popular art for years ago. The idea was to look like the ultimate woman (or a specific woman) without the excess makeup or sequined gowns. Shows like Frank Marino's in Vegas don't spend a lot of time on the parody but more on matching the entertainer they are emulating. While his shows have been called "drag" by the press, I think it is more classy.
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    I agree with Lorileah. We may not have many DQ members. But, most of us aspire to be the best FI's we can be!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    Great response Lorileah. I've never cared for DQ's (like the Blizzard though) but female impersonators truly impress me. Sort of like the way CD's who dress and transform well impress me.

    My favorite Female Impersonator, Madison Lane
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    I called Sheila Wolf a drag queen because that is how she self-describes (this is on her own and she performs in a burlesque show in Berlin). I think anyone is due the courtesy of being referred to in the manner in which she/he wishes. I thought that is what this web site is all about. Not saying "well No i don't think she qualifies because she is not over the top enough". A bit dismissive don't you think?

    I think we automatically think of Drag Queens to be over the top, but i have seen drag shows in Vegas where the performs were just trying to emulate a woman and I would not say as garish as some.

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    all very good and informative post that I agree with. I like Female Impersonators better as well and Sheila Wolf is one Hot Mama! We are all FI's for sure. I was lying awake and stumbled onto RuPauls Twitter and it just hit me that we, here, do not go over the top for the most part. My rational now after reading the responses thus far is we are not putting on a show or we are not here to entertain but just opening our hearts and minds revealing the true person we have always been. Offense was not a motive here. Just pondering out loud. Thank you for hearing me out.
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    I was so excited to see Ru Paul had a show. She is such a beauty. I would love to be trained by Ru. Now for the bad part--I always click off the show when "The performers" turn into (Bitches)" That ruins it for me and now seems to be the biggest part of the show. Just saying--- IMHO..

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    To me, a great deal of the members here are beyond crossdressing and have crossed into female impersonation. Crossdressing is just wearing female clothing in my view but adding makeup, wig, jewelry with the intention of being passable is female impersonation. When female impersonation is exaggerated with extra long eyelashes, heavy makeup, big hair etc. you got yourself a drag queen.

    Drag queens aren't trying to be passable. They're entertainers.

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    If I could offer up an art analogue, most of us would prefer to be the woman in a Vermeer painting ("Woman with a pearl necklace" http://tinyurl.com/cgqbwd9)
    than the woman in a Picasso painting ("Weeping woman" http://tinyurl.com/c39d7vc)
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    Sure doesn't look drag queenish to me. The gal from Germany I mean, just looks plain out and out PRETTY

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    Dressing as a drag queen you are going for a more ostentatious look.
    I have been more accepted at a party dressed ostentatiously more so than when I dressed conservatively.
    Guys can joke with a drag queen, but they werevery unsure about me on occasions.
    In order to break the ice I had to become the life of the party.
    Being extremely introverted as I can be sometimes???????
    I do not find it hard and I enjoy myself making guys squirm, if they have a macho attitude, and I have the support of others.
    That is what drag queens do.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    I don't do "drag" per se but do love to perform in shows and entertain others as Ericka.
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    I love drag queens. The more outrageous the better. DQs don't parody women, they parody femininity. What is femininity? It's the rules, regulations and expectations that are imposed on women ultimately by men just as masculinity is the rules, regulations, and expectations imposed on men by men. Drag queens get the joke, crossdressers generally don't. One of my current favorites is Prince Poppycock (John Quale). How do you classify him? He's not a Drag Queen but it's some kind of drag. He doesn't parody femininity, but rather effeminacy. LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSissyStevie View Post
    Drag queens get the joke, crossdressers generally don't.
    There was a joke? Like a minstrel show maybe?
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    A bit off topic, but I wonder why many of the clubs have their drag acts around midnight?
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    DQ's are over the top stage folk. They are the ultimate image of a woman, just as the Playboy and VS models are in their way.
    We on the other hand aren't for the most part seeking all the attention that those gals are and we are just being us.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lorileah View Post
    There was a joke? Like a minstrel show maybe?
    If there is any parallel with minstrelsy it would be with CDing. The purpose of blackface minstrelsy was to enforce racial stereotypes and many CDs seek to enforce gender stereotypes. For instance, how often do you read on this board of CDs complaining that women aren't feminine enough? Drag makes fun of gender stereotypes, after all most DQs come from the ranks of feminine gay men and are the victims of enforced gender roles. Seen in that light, it is obvious why so many CDs hate drag.

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    Great points Ladies. I do not hate drag but just truly noticed how different the genre is recently. I do believe most are feminine gay men. I am glad I said something on this topic. Hope we get more comments.
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    I used to perform as a drag escape artist, but really I was TV performer more than an out and out Drag Queen - my publicity had to have the word 'drag' in it though, in order to sell the act. Though I did the odd rugby gag, mostly I was pretty non-threatening by drag standards and the physical nature of the act ruled out the more over-the-top elements of the drag image.

    The website watermarked on these images no longer exists, but there are videos still up on Youtube and Myspace if you're curious.

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    No, But I think I could be the "Drag Queen of Denial" for thinking I'm normal, Ha Ha...Hugs Jaymee

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    I would say that being "in drag" and being a drag queen are two different expressions. But no one here seems to use the term "drag" for cross dressing in general. Maybe the term has become slightly outdated?

    Do a google images search for "in drag" compared to "drag queen" and you'll see a big difference!

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    To me drag queen is a term used only when you perform in or host a drag show. Kind of like you can act in home made videos,but until you actually start acting classes,getting head shots,auditioning,etc your not really an actor. Oh my god dont even bring up RuPauls drag race!! I have such crushes on Jinkx Monsoon,and Ivy Winters!! Realistically I wouldnt look to drag queens for my style, just because I'm aiming for early 80s post punk/new wave look,but I still love me some drag queens

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