There are so many supportive and understanding GGs here, I wondered whether or not any of you had actually tried crossdressing yourself, even as an experiment to help you understand your SO better. I'm not talking about borrowing your husband's shirt, I mean wearing garments, underwear and (yes) semi-realistic padding with the end goal of looking and feeling like a male for a while. I understand that F2M crossdressers are relatively rare but F2M transexuals usually (?) crossdress at some point to pass as male, so I think there's more equivalence than meets the eye. Even if your initial reaction is "I'm sure it wouldn't do anything for me" I have to wonder whether or not there is insight to be gained.
My interest is not prurient; it's more a question about the personalities of this unusual and wonderful breed of GGs.