This one threw me:
So today I was getting my hair cut by my stylist who is openly gay, married to a man and they have a son. One conversation led to another and he commented how he went to Walmart with a male friend who is transitioning. His friend was going to bring his purse into the store and my stylist would not go in with him because of it. After asking him questions it was evident that he is intolerant of this lifestyle. It also seemed clear that he questions whether a transgendered person has a choice or not in being who they are. To sum it up, his attitude was that gay people do not have a choice but transgendered people do. I was really surprised to hear this from a gay person.
Does this seem strange to any of you? How can a gay man who has no doubt fought against prejudices his whole life be intolerant of or not understand that in most cases a cd/transgendered lifestyle is not a choice? It is just who you are.
Furthermore, this interaction has given me new doubts about if certain people in my life will accept my lifestyle. But I guess it just goes to show that we are not very well understood. Yet
My wife said I should have lowered the boom on him about me at that point. But I really felt like he did not deserve to know something that personal about me.