Well, girls, I did it. I've let someone else into my "world".
As mentioned a while back, I emailed my therapist inquiring about her experience with gender dysphoria. While she's not an expert it is an area of interest for her so I moved past the email and we actually had a good conversation about it.
I told her that I often feel as if I'd be happier as a woman but don't know how deep these thoughts go. Do I actually want to be a woman or is it just a thrill? I personally believe the desire runs pretty deep however I don't believe myself to be a woman, just a guy who really hates being a guy.
She asked what I wanted to do with this side of me though truthfully I don't know. SRS would be a dream come true but I don't have the courage or self-esteem to do it. I can't imagine sharing this side of me with my family. While I'm sure they've wondered about me (especially after finding women's clothing hidden in my room while growing up), I'm just too scared and would prefer not revealing to them.
Other options we discussed was me simply trying to feminize my body (clothing, grooming/electrolysis, women's deodorant, body wash, etc). Small things, but stuff that would hopefully appease my inner girl. The downside I find to this however is that, being a straight guy, feminizing myself would potentially lead people to believe I'm gay. So I believe it would make it harder for me to find a woman. Honestly, I kind of wish I was gay. It seems like it would be easier to have this feminine side and be more openly accepted if I was. Or perhaps it would make it even worse...I really don't know.
Currently I don't live on my own (moved back in with parents few years ago to save money...I regret the decision every day as I've suppressed everything), so I told her how excited I am to get my own place again so I can get back into things. My house warming present to myself is going to be a make-up kit. I'm quite excited...even though I have NO clue how to do make-up. Thank god for youtube tutorials.
As this was just our first session discussing things it was mostly just an intro. I'm not sure where this is going to take me but at least I've got a professional on my side. She also invited me to dress up for our sessions, though I told her I likely wouldn't. I'm a shy little girl...so shy I hide in a man's body.
My thanks to everyone who helped me make the decision to reveal to her.