I found a wedding dress on eBay in a size that looked like it would fit and at a price I could justify, so I bought it.
I have my eBay purchaces shipped to my PO Box in my real (male) name.
Here's part of the exchange with the seller:
Me: Can you confirm item is shipped or inform me when it will be shipped. Thanks.
Seller: hi, I emailed you this morning. it is packed and going out first thing tomorrow morning. I waited for a box for it. thank you. enjoy
seller: hi, I shipped out first thing this morning. I also enclosed a brand new veil that I had and thought you would like.
me: Thank you so much for the veil. I'll keep you posted when I do get to the PO later this week.
seller: I am glad I gave the veil to you. Good luck with it. It is brand new.
So, it's pretty obvious she's figured out my secret and it way cool about it.
Now to try on that wedding dress.