Hi-
One topic that seems to come up is the conundrum- many cross dressers are heterosexual men who want to have a wife and kids, yet are afraid of rejection if their fem side is known to a prospective partner. As a result many do NOT tell a prospective partner until late in the relationship-My wife of 33 years has known but with kids, 3 jobs, pets and all the issue has NOT come up because other issues are on all burners, and it is not critical mass. (too many other noisy elephants in room)
Now that I have NO time to dress, nor for that matter do anything but work 2 jobs and recover when not working, I have found a site which has women actively looking for cross dressers and TGs, AND NOT JUST FOR hookups. Most other sites have a 20-100:1 ratio of men looking for quick anonymous sex.
For my part I have met someone my age on the forum, had lunch together, looked forward to meeting other forumites(?) she/he knows, when 3 more crises developed and there is NO TIME to do anything. Miss having others my generation to talk to- many issues, kids, finances, retirement etc to discuss in addition to TG stuff- hence more grateful than ever for forum.
Hugs,
Flo