The mainstream world holds many possible adventures for a T girl,for sure.And,if you aren't able to be viewed 100 percent of the time as a GG,then everyone falls in the same boat,from recreational CD to transitioning TS..you don't plan on passing close scrutiny.. So,anything can happen,and especially with rednecks! Here is what happened Friday pm... I had two tipsy couples want to sit beside me at my regular spot.I was busy with the band..Next thing,one very rednecky guy has his arm up on the bar and tells me that he wants to armwrestle me! I graciously told him that women don't armwrestle. His reply was that "he never saw arms like that on a woman"..His tipsy wife then says in my ear,"he hasn't been exposed to much and I really like your answer". I ignore the two couples and their drinking and dancing get going..Next thing I know,the touchy feelly wife that thought she could bond with me is back in my ear.."what are you looking for tonight?" Nothing,I am here listening to my friends play. "No,really,I am SURE you are looking for something". "No I am not" was my final reply and I turned away. Well,after the foursome were spent and getting up to leave,the armwrestler came over and put his hand up like he wanted to "highfive me or some silly gesture" When my hand went up,he grabbed it,put his other hand around my shoulder,and pulled our faces together and squished his lips into mine...NOT A KISS, a squish!! Nothing nice about it,especially in front of 50 onlookers. He finally let me go,and off they went,out the door. They were not local. Anyway,3 women immediately rushed up with the WTF was that ? And then proceeded to tell me that I handled his assault way better than they would have.. I just laughed cause it is just another adventure in the mainstream world and further proof that most often leaving any maleness at home is the best plan.