Results 1 to 13 of 13

Thread: Finally went out

  1. #1
    Just being true to myself Jolene Robertson's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    Southern US
    Posts
    2,881

    Finally went out

    Well I finally went out as Jolene! Two days while up north this last week. And the world did not end!
    I couldn’t believe how liberating it was, middle of the day and no backup clothes. The wife was visiting some relatives (if she had been with me someone might have recognized her).
    The first trip was quite short just a quick stop by an oriental cosmetics store and got some nail polish remover since I forgot to pack some, and then a stop at TJ Max to look around. I have to admit I was nervous when I had to interact with others as my female voice is not too good but all went well. The second time was another day and I stopped at a Catherine’s and the lady there said “you look pretty small, I don’t think we have anything that will fit you” (I didn’t know it was a “full figured ladies shop” but she was wrong though I bought a great pair of sun glasses.
    Stopped and watched the local semi pro baseball game and walked around the park. Just another pretty face in the crowd, that’s how I felt (it’s my story after all).
    Believe me if I can do it anyone can.
    Any way just thought I’d share, didn’t get any pictures but I will have the wife take some of me in the outfits I wore and post them later.

  2. #2
    Senior Member mikiSJ's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2010
    Location
    Silicon Valley, CA
    Posts
    1,945
    Good for you!!

    I had my first shopping experience, dressed, yesterday. Yes, it was liberating and the world didn't stop!

    I am also glad your wife is accepting, at least much more than my wife.
    When writing the next chapter in your life, start with a pencil and eraser - my first page as Miki is full of eraser marks.

  3. #3
    Just a touch of class Lynn Marie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    NW Washington State
    Posts
    2,898
    Congratulations Jolene. Your statement of "And the world did not end" is pretty typical of first timers out the door. And, yes, it is most liberating and exhilarating. Thanks for sharing.

  4. #4
    Lady By Choice Leslie Langford's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Location
    near Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    Posts
    4,275
    I second all of the above emotions!

  5. #5
    Senior Member michelleddg's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    Posts
    1,670
    Nice! And, agree, the easiest way to get clocked is to be with your wife in an area where people might know you or her. Hugs, Michelle

  6. #6
    Banned Spammer
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    Location
    Between here and there but mostly here close to the donuts.
    Posts
    22,257
    Glad you had a great time Jolene @ yes the world still turns.LOL
    One of my first times out enfemme was the flea Market east of Knoxville on 40 where you turn to go towards Sevierville.
    I met a CD from a guitar site I frequent and bought a guitar from her.It was her first time out enfemme.
    We had a great time shopping for purses and girly stuff.
    Nobody gave us a second look and we had a wonderful day.

  7. #7
    Silver Member linda allen's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    4,924
    It's a great feeling to get out of the house as a female (on the outside at least). It's the best way to test your skills.
    [SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda

  8. #8
    Aspiring Overlord Bree Wagner's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Location
    Washington D.C.
    Posts
    1,407
    Congratulations Jolene! I'm thrilled everything went so well for you.

    -Bree

  9. #9
    Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Posts
    102
    Congratulations! Very inspirational story and a great help to me.

  10. #10
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Location
    A bit south of the 49th!
    Posts
    23,718
    Going out of town, traveling, shopping and sight seeing without a net is a remarkable feeling, particularly the first time out. I do agree with the term liberating, because we are setting free that captive part of ourselves.

  11. #11
    Silver Member RenneB's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Location
    Michigan
    Posts
    3,375
    Welcome to the day walkers club. ... Being out and about is a blast. Besides that closet gets way too stuffy.

    Fair warning though, the more you get out the more you want to get out. The first few times, it feels like time stands still. Walking from the car to the store seems like it takes forever. Eventually, the butterflies start to go away and then time speeds up. Before you know it, you'll be just out doing errands and shopping with the rest of 'em...

    Most girls will say that it didn't happen unless you have a pic. But I believe you. ... really. :-)

    Thanks for sharing... and hope you get out and about again...

    Renne....

  12. #12
    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Lowestoft UK. Beverley was here.
    Posts
    30,955
    Onya! Jolene,
    Yes anyone can, just learn to present correctly and away you go.
    Don't get in any ones face and all is good.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

  13. #13
    Dreams can come true Dana L's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Wisconsin
    Posts
    267
    Congrats Jolene! It's got to be such a great feeling finally able to be the real you in public. I've really got to do it someday.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State