Welcome back, I will use the same philosophy I have in the outside world as far disagreements and arguments I have with people. I will not change who or what I am, or avoid the things things, places, and activities I enjoy because of those who don't like me or just outright hate my guts. If I don't accept any of that in the outside world, I sure am not going to accept here being that here is the place I do consider my safe zone and healing area.
As for asking for specific opinions on pictures it's fair game. If ask a question about a pic I postED such as "Do my arms and shoulders look petite small and feminine and do they help me to pass" I would have to be able to accept the answers given (in this case no, no, and no) no matter how much I would like to receive nothing but compliments and be told that they do help me to pass.
In short Jennifer, KEEP TELLING THE BRUTAL TRUTH!!