When I look at a post,I don't immediately look at all the things that may need improvement....you have those vultures out there in the form of overly critical human beings,I don't think they have the ability to seek out the good in an individual.People need to learn to balance out constructive criticism with tact and in a way it will be effective.
When making a post,one should finish by checking spelling,grammar and the the nature of Its content.Then ask ourselves,is it hateful,to direct,offensive,might someone misunderstand the meaning or point?I feel there's a way to be direct and nice if we just take our time and reread before posting.