The net is rife with "answers" on any subject. These are just individual perceptions offered by people who think it must be "x" or "y". You can easily imagine that someone who knows nothing about cross dressing can easily assume that one cross dresses because they are unhappy being a man. Lack of knowledge also explains why the average person thinks we must be gay. All the average person has as a frame of reference is drag. Rue Paul does not represent me.
I want to add that cross dressing is never the cause of divorce. The paragraph provided shows that. Women don't have to like it, but they can handle it. Lying, they can't handle. I think where cross dressing and divorce meet is when the relationship is in real trouble, a wife/SO can throw in the towel when cross dressing is added in. And not because of the act, but because it was one more deceit that breaks the proverbial camel's back.
