I have given this a lot of thought over the last six months. I can't come up with a why for love or money. I read online, not sure which site, I think maybe renderer eyes.com something to the affect of "don't worry about why you do it, just have fun with it. This resonated big with me and I quit wondering and am just having fun!
There is definitely a sexual component. *giggles* we are acting like a couple of teenagers. There is something more though. If it were just a fetish I wouldn't be wanting capris or dresses and skirts. It would only be about the lingerie bplease don't misunderstand me, I do love lingerie. But I also love putting on an outfit, (I have several to choose from now that are appropriate for my age and station)? And going about my daily routine.
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Rita