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    Junior Member Sami's Avatar
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    OMFG get out already

    Oh this is so frustrating I was going to tell my partner over the last 3 or 4 days and then someone comes round or something happens and I lose my nerve blah gotta get it together its driving me mental.

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    the reward is far greater than the risk. Good luck

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    I GOT YOUR BACK.

    You know! Message me any time. You can do it.

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    There's never going to be a good time, exactly, but it is worth finding a time when she can process the news without additional pressure or stress. Good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greenie View Post
    I GOT YOUR BACK.

    You know! Message me any time. You can do it.
    Thanks Greenie I was so close yesterday.

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    Fortunately, tomorrow almost always occurs together with another chance - get ready!!
    When writing the next chapter in your life, start with a pencil and eraser - my first page as Miki is full of eraser marks.

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    Maybe, whatever it was that pushed you over the edge several days ago, was not really that big a push after all?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wildaboutheels View Post
    Maybe, whatever it was that pushed you over the edge several days ago, was not really that big a push after all?
    I have been planning to tell for ages and was about to and I keep getting disturbed or something happens

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    One of my favorite quotes is "if you pile up enough 'tomorrows', all you'll have is a lot of empty yesterdays". Good Luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetmelody View Post
    One of my favorite quotes is "if you pile up enough 'tomorrows', all you'll have is a lot of empty yesterdays". Good Luck!
    loved this quote,, back to Sami; I wish you the best of luck, i hope it goes really well for you

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    Thanks girls it won't be today but it is imminent I am ready I think will keep you posted.

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    I am truly sorry Sami.
    My advice is think of what is left in the relationship and if it is not beneficial to either of you, just do it, with compassion.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Good luck Sami, I hope it goes well for you.
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    My advice is this.. both you and your partner go into 'relax mode' and talk to each other,just be yourself,and you will find that there was never a issue in the first place .

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    Hi Sami,

    I didn't spill the beans straight after I got caught in her nightie etc. but waited until a time that I felt was right.
    Actually, she had just shaved the hair of my neck when I did, so maybe I'm not the best person to give advice.
    Maybe I was chancing my neck, not just my arm, as they say.

    Do it at your own pace. My fingers are crossed for you.

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    It is the scariest thing you'll probably ever do and possibly the most liberating. I wish you all the luck and hugs in the world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikiSJ View Post
    Fortunately, tomorrow almost always occurs together with another chance - get ready!!
    Tomorrow never comes!

    Get 'er done today!?
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