1, another way for me to relate it is this way:
Went to a drag bar last weekend with a couple of other girls, the only thing there I was remotely attracted to was the dresses that some of the straight GGs were wearing..
I'm a one girl guy, and a celibate girl.
A dear friend puts it this way - when dressed, too busy having fun to muck around with the other stuff..
And, for the record, I am married, period. Marriage has bought the best, and worst moments of my life. Not happy all the time though..
And I wouldn't have it any other way..