Well, having been told that there would be no intimate relationships between us, that seems to have broken down a little bit and my wife has gotten closer in terms of a cheek kiss and cuddle but nothing beyond that. We're more like girlfriends but she insists we're husband and wife. That said she has encouraged my dressing to the extend that she has pointed me in direction of the larger size direction of her favorite shop Christopher and Banks and has bought me clothes, make-up and jewelry from various sources. i am now allowed to dress all day so long as when we go out I go out en drab. But at home Gloria is welcome to the entent that right now we have house guests and when they had retired to bed she said she was surprised to see me not in a dress. Make up is cool and the whole thing looks rosy.
But she has taken up swimming in the morning, three or four times a week for about three hours and I am getting concerned. I am pretty certain she has someone else that she is seeing but rather than dismay me, the situation almost excites me. Should i just be the house frau and give her her freedom or should I confront her or what. I went through the laundry basket and am pretty sure she is sleeping about and not trying to hide it - almost being flagrant about it and hoping I'll find it out. Has anyone else been through this and if so what did you do?
Gloria K