I'm out as a CDer to most friends and family and generally feel happy and accepting of the way I am. Although I only can step out en femme twice per month, incorporating as much femininity into my daily life makes me feel better. Whether it's carrying a handbag, using eyeliner, painting my nails, or wearing a ladies tank top to yoga, I just go with how I feel. Many people think I'm gay, and are surprised to learn that I like women. A few members here have indicated that this approach also works for them. Does this work for you?
My doctor has asked me about HRT, which I've declined for now. I don't feel the intense need, and hope I never do. I'm in awe of those who do transition, but trying to unify my feminine side with the rest of my life seems easier and safer. Earlier this year, I broke from my professional career and started cosmetology school. Playing with hair and makeup all day sounded like fun, and I was right! Also, you learn things about women in beauty school that you probably won't anywhere else (another post). The field is generally low-paying, however, so I don't know how far I can continue with it. Have any of you switched careers or made other major life changes to allow your feminine side to flourish?