I know that there are many reasons why people xdress and to each their own ..This is not about other peoples reasons ,this is about mine..
Thanks to my own and my ex's actions I have been outed to pretty much everyone..I always knew the risk and it was just a matter of time before this day has came..I was prepared to handle it but in my own way at my own pace but thanks to the ex I didn't get that opportunity.. I am not ashamed ,embarrassed or in denial, I took it like a man..I kept my mouth shut
So , now that I am outed and surrounded by those closest to me with acceptance ,love and feeling sorry for me ..I have choose to remain in the closet,like I said I wanted to do it at my own pace and time.. But the door is open and the opportunity is there but I am not reacting to it ,why? Because I am not one to share my bedroom life with people ..I do not dress for the stereo typical reasons the average person thinks many of us do..They know I am not gay and that isn't a issue either..
The issue is I do not go around spreading other peoples bedroom lives that's personal .They think I have gender issues and I have said nothing yet to combat that even tho it's not true..The problem is, how do I explain something this personal to my children? This is why I have been to about every "cross dressing site on the internet researching my "Label" what best describes me and in a way that other people can understand..It's personal!! I do not want to share this part of my life ..I am a guy who just likes to dress in a fetish way in private.. The doors open ,I have a welcomed invitation to come out and be accept ..But to what? Something I am not? No thanks