I like being hit on. I guess it goes back to my high school days. I never went on a date with anyone to whom I was not introduced. I could never bring myself to approach the girl myself. I guess that is why I am submissive.
I like being hit on. I guess it goes back to my high school days. I never went on a date with anyone to whom I was not introduced. I could never bring myself to approach the girl myself. I guess that is why I am submissive.
Rikki Elisabeth
No....not exactly hit on, but of the times in the past when I was single that I have dressed up fully en femme for costume parties (and there have been several) I did get lots of GG attention
However all of the GGs that "fussed"over me either already knew me, or knew friends of my mine and so kinda knew that I was "safe".
Anyway, at the time I loved the attention and enjoyed being treated different.
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Originally Posted by Jesse69
Oye! Who do you think you're talking to here? Jesse, you do know that there are GGs on this forum who like being with crossdressers, right? Are you saying we're all lesbians or perverts? I don't think so!
I looked to date and marry a crossdresser because I wanted to be with softer, gentler, non-macho kind of guy. I also happen to think crossdressing is sexy and fun. I am not a lesbian. Not even slightly. In fact I have never heard of a lesbian becoming romantically involved with a MtF crossdresser..... although if you're lucky they will flirt with you at TG clubs
Anyway, it isn't nice to go around slapping labels on girls like me. We might just slap back!
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
And if the people stare
Then the people stare
Oh, I really don't know and I really don't care....
--The Smiths
My wife Anna knows I'm CD she does'nt speake about it but she makes remarks. Lastweek Anna and I were shopping in a medium large city, she spotted a CD a very bad impersonation of a woman. Than Anna tells me how pathetic that is, and I would look the same. Then I respond thats why I have to advice you all the time what to weare and how to dress. It's living on the edge.
Love,
Lotte L
What an eye opener !
It was the first time that I ever went out in public. My wife and I had just come from a make over session and were headed out for dinner but I realized that I had very little cash left as I bought a new wig and some other thing also. I stopped at a bank, and started to walk up to the ATM machine when this guy ( very well dressed, very hansom 40ish executive ) that was ahead of me seed “ please go ahead of me mam” and then started up a conversation with “ you look so beautiful tonight, are you going out with someone ?”. I answer without a flinch, “my wife and I are going to dinner and then dancing” thinking that would end it but he came back with, “ I hope that I see you ladies later tonight !” --------------- now know what my wife means when she sees “ wet my panties!” I took my money and seed as sweet as I could, thank you very much, and walked away. When I told wife what happened, she giggled and laughed and seed, now you see what we girls have to go through to get money.
But that’s not the end of the night, at the restraint this really cute 35ish girl started giving me the flirty eye when I went into the ladies room and so I smiled and thought that was it. When I came out and sat down to finish dinner, she was in my face as in my face with my wife sitting three feet away. Now my wife is very sweet and ever so gentle but I think that may have just pushed her over the edge (edge of the knife that she was holding). She told her that I was her girl and she better get lost – you get the picture of how the rest of the dinned went. When we left the restraint, it happened again, another guy, -- we went home. My wife still talks about that night. Now please understand that I am really old, super fat and regardless of how feminine I feel on the inside, the outside looks like a Mack truck and smells like a Greyhound buss. It was very gratifying all that attention but also a mystery as to why so few people have not had there eyes checked lately, must need a good HMO.
I hade dreamed as any girl would do, of what it would be like to be beautiful and adored but never once ever imagined or thought throughout my entire life it could ever happen to me but the attention I get now of people treating me as a lady is beyond any description or aspiration. As I seed, I still look like a combination of a Mack truck and a Greyhound but I feel like a princess.
Debbie Austin
debbieaustin@juno.com
In my teens i used to go out alot with a couple of friends GGs to clubs pubs got invited to there weddings used to go to aerobics i was quite a convincing tv but i never got hit on by a woman.
Got hit on by a guy once ,he grabed me from behind when i was dancing with female friends but i declined his offer.
Another Guy said nice legs when i got out of my Car.
That's about it.
Don't dress up as much these days only in private as i,m getting older but i look back and think what a fun time i,ve had over the years.
Last edited by Davina; 12-28-2005 at 09:03 AM.
Nope, never hit on. I suppose that is one of the joys of being ugl... unattrac... plain.
Warm regards,
Christina Nicole
Oh no - I wasn't calling all women who like crossdressors as lesbians. I was just thinking that they were a little bit kinky but I didn't say pervert. It would be nice if straight regular women liked crossdressors too - but mostly I think they're turned off by us. Like I'm turned off by butch lesbians who dress like men - but seeing this is very rare.
Oye! Who do you think you're talking to here? Jesse, you do know that there are GGs on this forum who like being with crossdressers, right? Are you saying we're all lesbians or perverts? I don't think so!
I looked to date and marry a crossdresser because I wanted to be with softer, gentler, non-macho kind of guy. I also happen to think crossdressing is sexy and fun. I am not a lesbian. Not even slightly. In fact I have never heard of a lesbian becoming romantically involved with a MtF crossdresser..... although if you're lucky they will flirt with you at TG clubs
Anyway, it isn't nice to go around slapping labels on girls like me. We might just slap back!
Not a "hit on" story, but sorta related...
A tg shop in Hollywood I used to visit a lot, employed a middle aged GG seamstress to sew French maid costumes and such. I usually went drab during the day, but en femme in the evening. She pretty much kept to her sewing, never socializing with the customers, and went home after the work day.
One day I said I'd be back later en femme. When I came back that evening dressed, the seamstress was still there. She made a big fuss over me, saying it wasn't fair that a guy could look prettier than a real girl, and kept touching me. Uba, the shop owner said the seamstress was really anxious to see what I looked like as a girl, and stayed on until I showed up.
An unrelated story, Uba had a young CD working part time. He'd only seen me en femme. The first time he saw me en drab, he covered his eyes, and kept saying no, no. His fantasy of me as a girl had been shattered. I 've been there too...get turned on by an attractive CD, then see her en drab...thud...
Mitzi
Sure, been hit on from Gay guys in a few bars. I wasn't offended or flattered, I just had to explain that boys didn't do it for me. I have been approached by a few straight men, very scary actually, and again not my bag. I have GG hairdresser girlfriends who are real sweet to me, but they have no sexual interest. I am happily married, but I would like to have a girlfriend that I could really talk to. I knew a transexual girl a few years ago. I used to do her hair- hair extensions and color. She was beautiful and so sweet. She said I turned her on and she kissed me once when she was very pleased with how her hair came out. I'll admit, She could do it for me, and I was really tempted.
well i go out reguarly and theres been a few times ive been hit on and to me its a complament knowing that i have done some thing rite. and i have to really agree with marla on this you,d be suprised at the very sincere ggs that want some one that is tender and gentil. alot of gg's dont look at us a so-called eye candy.there has been many nites ive been invited to sit along with the true girls and have felt at ease and very welcomed by them.just the thought of being exepeted at level equal to them is a complament in its self and should not be taken for granted.Nor be miss understood for the sexual end of things.gay is gay no matter what gender they are and most likely have there own partners and most certainly dont stray from that.as far as the perverted or kinky end of things well in all the time ive been dressing and thats been over 15 years or so now ive ran accross one and i think its was more for the curiusity of it than anything else.when im dressed as la fem i dont want to be labled being bi,gay or otherwise knowing im straight !!! and most of the other girls would agree on this as well so marla has a point on the lableing as well.incounters of the third kind are more a fantisy than a reality.being a crossdresser does not make you automaticly gay and femals who enjoy being with us does not make them lesbiens either.
I'm not sure how I would react. But I would love the opportunity.
Sabrina,
Wish i Could find a gg that will put up with me .Maybe I should stop Cross Dressing .
What do you thinK Girls.
I used to go to the Queen Mary in L.A. years ago and was often hit on by guys (which I loved by the way, even if I never followed up). Once a couple approached me, a husband and wife in their early thirties I'd guess. No real lead-up, they just said hello and asked if I wanted to go back to their place for a threesome. Once I got my breath, I politely declined. The bartender asked me later if that was what they asked me, and we had a good laugh about how direct they were.
A couple of Halloween's ago I was out at a club in Barrie and a woman approached and befriended me. We danced and at one point she pulled down the front of my dress and played with my breasts. She was somewhat aggressive but also very drunk. Soon she went home in a cab.
The other night, New Year's eve, in Toronto, a woman bought me a drink and insisted on dancing with me several times throughout the night and into the morning. I think she was high on Ecstacy. Young enough to be my daughter. All good fun. Later, a ******* Escort danced with me but she was just working the crowd.
I find that many woman are amused, in a pleasant way, when they see us. Lot's of smiles and winks. More than I ever recieved when out as a guy. It's the most gratifying thing.
Best wishes
Debbie
I have been hit on numerous times by gg's at clubs but these clubs are usually fetish or goth clubs so the girls are pretty open minded. In fact two girls who had never been to these type of clubs before even asked me to go to the ladies with them and get to know each other even better, but i had to beg off because even though i only find women sexually attractive i dont find ALL women sexually attractive if you know what i mean. Of my last 4 girlfriends all of them met me dressed first and only later saw my drab self but i must admit 3 of those girls bad bisexual tendencies and saw me as a very safe option. I believe women find the fact that you are being honest about yourself when dressed a very attractive feature as well as being slightly exotic.
I have attached a photo of me with my ex (in pvc) and her roomy in my blond wig before mardi-gras last year.
Last edited by DanaJ; 01-02-2006 at 09:42 AM.
A fool and his money are soon................hey where's my wallet?????
If you're the tall one in white with purple hair you're really hot! I thought you were a real woman! Post some more pics of yourself in the Picture Section. I can see why bisexual women would like you.
Funny you should ask....
I was out Friday, the first time in almost a month. I ran into a girl I had seen many times but only had casual conversations with. This night she seemed much more friendly and I wasn't about to walk away. We spent a lot of time being physical, kissing and hugging, and it seemed she was enjoying it as much as me. She says she's not lez or even bi, she just liked me. Cool!
I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
A real lady never tells.
I had a friend's girlfriend slap me on the bum everytime i walked past or near her on New year's eve, She even grabbed me on my breastforms, then even let me me feel hers. Good thing her boyfriend wasn't there.
i am what I am, I do what I do..
i do not seek approval from others.
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