Just the other day I was using the men's room when another man came in and was obviously very confused for a minute. Personally I thought it was rather funny but I imagine he didn't. Let me set the background here. Since starting HRT in the spring I have let my hair grow out and gotten my ears pierced. For awhile now I've been carrying a black woman's purse at all times. I was letting my facial hair grow for a few days in preparation for another round of laser removal.
So I'm in the men's room wearing jeans, a rather nondescript light jacket, longer hair, and a purse over my shoulder. Another guy comes in walks just past me, stops and spins completely 360 degrees. I see him look at the urinal then he starts to say, "this is the," when he finally looks and sees my unshaven face in the mirror. At that point he says nothing more but simply goes into the stall next to him and shuts the door.
I must say that this isn't the first time I've been mistaken for a woman when out as my male self. It seems to happen more in the fall or spring when I'm wearing a plain light jacket and of course carrying my purse. I've been called ma'am at the grocery check out and at restaurants until they took a good look at me. I guess there are just some things that are so associated with a certain gender, like carrying a purse, that most people will just assume which you are without really looking at you. Just an observation.
Any one else out there get mistaken for a woman regularly when not trying to be so?