Thats kool oh wow hun I didnt know that
Thats kool oh wow hun I didnt know that
1. How many of you dressing up in private as far as practicing on feminine movement, makeup, etc before decide to go out in public? I don't think I'll ever go out in public, at least until I lose about 50 lbs, learn to do makeup, and purchase wigs & jewelry. And that will probably take about 20 years.
2. When dressing up as a woman and you feel happy as that you dont want to give it up for good? Yes, I love it, especially feeling of my shaved legs in hose, heels and a skirt or dress. That does make me happy, especially when I can do it with my wife present.
3. Are you attractive to mtf/ftm crossdressers/transgenders, women and men or is it the other way around? If the person looks like an attractive woman, I am attracted, regardless of their true gender. I would be excited to meet and converse with a very convincing crossdresser or transsexual, as I have never met anyone in real life. I don't find men at all attractive sexually, though some of the non-op TS porn is exciting for me. Because I love my wife and am faithful to her, the only way I would ever act on any of this is if she were involved. We were looking at some TS porn a few months ago and she mentioned that she might want to explore that one day. Interesting.
4. Are any of you thought about and/or planning on transition soon or happy being a crossdresser? No plans to transition. Just would like to lose some weight to look better in a dress and to wear some cute tops. Have the upper body match the lower, really.
5. Do any of you mention to your s.o., family and friends that you are a crossdresser? Only my wife knows.
1. Not been out in public yet (other than Rocky Horror Theatre visits). Will do in the future.
2. Yes. No problem enjoying crossdressing and have no desire to stop.
3. Yes I am.
4. No. Happy as a male.
5. My GF. And she positively encourages it! She told her best friend too, who is completely cool with it. Although I've not dressed in her presence yet.
I never been to rocky horror theatre I only watch the movie and thats great you are very happy
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I would play video games with you what system do you have
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I am happy that I can be who I am and I am blessed that the wife is very supportive.Originally Posted by tiffanynjcd24
Seeing everyone on here being happy makes me even more happy
My wife and some family members know. Most do not know though.
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1. I dont practice movement. I dressup and sit pretty.
2. If I can, I would give it up. But I couldn't, so I won't.
3. I LOVE women and things feminine.
4. Love being a guy, so no transition.
5. My female best friend and a sister knows about it.
1. I definitely practice in private. Also, I do have to work up the courage to make it out the door pretty much every time, but once I go out, I'm out!
2. Not sure what you are asking with this one. I don't want to give it up, but I don't want to do it 24/7 either. Call me lazy, but I don't want to do the make-up and super close shaving every day. Still, I'll dress up for the rest of my life for sure. Supportive gf helps!
3. I'm very much straight. Men seem to like Veronica a lot (the ones not scared away, anyway). Would like to hang out with more women, though, and wishing more women would like to show Veronica what the city offers them.
4. No transitioning. CDing works for me.
5. Gf knows, ex-wife knows. Did not tell my family but SHOWED them (mother, step-father, sister). I knew they'd support me.
1. How many of you dressing up in private as far as practicing on feminine movement, makeup, etc before decide to go out in public?
I've only been out dressed once at night, so I suppose i'm still pretty much in practice :P I need to master walking, my voice and sitting before I attempt to go out again :P I also need to make padding for my hips.
2. When dressing up as a woman and you feel happy as that you dont want to give it up for good?
Yes, it makes me happy to no end to be read as a woman
3. Are you attractive to mtf/ftm crossdressers/transgenders, women and men or is it the other way around?
I've been with my girlfriend for the past 4 years and I never plan on not being with her
4. Are any of you thought about and/or planning on transition soon or happy being a crossdresser?
I've thought about it, but answering your next question all of the people who are close to me know me as Allison now and well treat me somewhat different. that's what makes it fine for me. I get to "crossdress" but have been perfectly happy. I thought at one point I would need to but i've been so satisfied with life lately since telling my girlfriend I don't want to anymore. It will be easier for her and a lot easier for me as well. I guess that makes me not a transsexual but still transgendered? I don't know the term for myself anymore but I identify as female, live like a girl, and hopefully look at least androgynous :P
I think my thoughts on it now though, are if I did transition it would probably make me happy. But in the process I know I would be making things harder for my gf, and harder for myself in the long run and I'm not sure I want ot go through all of that hardship. I would feel a lot happier with my body of course. Because I hate shaving my face, and chest. But I'm going to get laser hair removal since I'm a good candidate for it and that wouldn't stop with transitioning anyway. I'd like to have natural breasts but again I can fake it when I want to. Like I know hormones are not the you will pass as a woman miracle wonder drug, but I feel like it would make passing a lot easier and sometimes I'd just like to be able to without having to make sure my face is clean, or my makeup is done. i've been mistaken for a women before in boy mode but that was just once :P ah Idk c: I'm happy how things are.
5. Do any of you mention to your s.o., family and friends that you are a crossdresser?
My wonderful girlfriend knows <3 and rather enjoys it c: We do eachother's makeup and go to thrift stores together xD A plus for her too is that I never whine about taking long to do things, since I know how much work makeup takes :P
My mom I've told firsthand and she doesn't fully understand, but she really doesn't care either. She said she knew anywho when I told her because of the way I dress in boy mode. Since i wear skinny jeans, and girl's tops that can sort of pass as men's as well.
That leads me to believe both of my sisters know as well. Since one is studying in school to be a cosmetologist i've asked her a things about makeup, and she knows how I dress as well :P Not to mention once I tell my mom something pretty much everyone will know about it xD
1. Have any of you thought about get into drag or just stick to crossdressing?
No, I want to just look natural no drag or anything :P
2. Where do you currently shop at (i.e. do you shop at victoria secret, hot topic, etc) and what type of fashion sense do any of you have.
AnywhereI love thrift stores, but I've gotten stuff from JCPenny, hot topic, khols etc.
3. are any of you in the crossdresser organizations and does it help to meet other crossdressers?
I'm going to join a LGBTQ type club at my college soon but i've no experience with that yet :P
4. is it beneficial to meet other crossdressers for friendship and/or relationship in general?
I guess it would depend on how they act just like any other person! If they were always bringing me down I wouldn't want to talk to them u.u But if they were making the best of things I think they would be a very fine friend to have ^^
5. what is your secret to staying healthy and beautiful?
I just drink a lot of water, try and watch my calories, also skin care routine that i've been getting lazy on D:
6. what was your first crossdressing experience?
I've been cross dressing ever since I can remember :P It would probably be putting on my mom's wig's and trying to fit in her dresses when I was a little kid like it seriously is one of my earliest memories xD
7. when you are dressing up as a woman, like do you do it for sexual thrill or is it more than that like expressing your feminine side?
Expressing feminine side
8. what type of activites do you do on your spare time?
Video games, read, Breaking bad (but that just ended last night D
9. do you use corsets and padding to create a feminine shape or does it comes all natural to you?
I'm looking into using them since I do not pass at all from the waist down I need to figure out what would be better to use. I'm leaning towards corset though, and maybe a small padding thing, but need to research more :O
10. do you consider yourself to be a role model/mentor for other crossdressers where they can come to you for advice or are you just your own person?
Just my own person, I'm still way to young and inexperienced to be a role model. If anything I still look up to people and their advice :P
Last edited by Allison Quinn; 09-30-2013 at 09:06 AM.
1) I work on my clothing, etc. and makeup. Sometimes movement, sometimes voice.
2) I could give it up for good if I had to. At the present time, I don't have to.
3) I am married and attracted to women, specifically, my wife.
4) No. Content to be a crossdresser.
5) My wife knows. Nobody else and I will keep it that way if possible.
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Here's my story and I'm sticking to it: From the top and uncharacteristically brief:
1. How many of you dressing up in private as far as practicing on feminine movement, makeup, etc before decide to go out in public? Movement: That's one of the challenges. I learned that in watching a young girl go through the same dance ensemble movements that I was doing next to her in an opening scene of Cabaret. Make up -- I've had help. It's hard.
2. When dressing up as a woman and you feel happy as that you dont want to give it up for good? Yeah
3. Are you attractive to mtf/ftm crossdressers/transgenders, women and men or is it the other way around? Attractive or attracted? Re: Attractive. The only time I am attractive to women is being a man. Re: Attracted? Men who dress are attractive to me. I'm a latent bisexual...today.
4. Are any of you thought about and/or planning on transition soon or happy being a crossdresser? No. It's too late for me. I have a life. It's what it is. As a fantasy, it's been there but that is only a fantasy.
5. Do any of you mention to your s.o., family and friends that you are a crossdresser? I tried hinting but no, it ain't going to happen. People rely on me too much to be a certain type of male. I don't want to hurt them. Getting life right takes compromise. For me.
Hi i have more questions for crossdressers.
1. Have any of you thought about get into drag or just stick to crossdressing? I thought if I wanted to do it I could have it. Learned that was way off. Being "clocked the first time was a game breaker. On December 31, 2012 I posted about the experience, calling it, My Day With Rachel. It has the only headshot of me that I ever did on this site -- not for want of trying. That was a learning experience.
I really haven't had a strong urge since then. It depends on where you are. I live in a backward place that has much too much angst. It's not worth it. On vacation by myself, yes, yes, yes. I got the whole outfit ready, starting with my LBD from Rachel.
2. Where do you currently shop at (i.e. do you shop at victoria secret, hot topic, etc) and what type of fashion sense do any of you have. Here -- K-mart (the only place here with women's fluffy stuff) and places with used women's clothing. Also, the hospital store for the panty hose that doubles as compression hose. In Chicago, Skyscraper for shoes together with my mecca of inspiration, Rachel's Hair and Wigs. I have great fashion sense. Ask my wife. Our favorite show is Project Runway.
3. are any of you in the crossdresser organizations and does it help to meet other crossdressers? Small town, no way. The closest thing is this site.
4. is it beneficial to meet other crossdressers for friendship and/or relationship in general? I would love to but not to be here.
5. what is your secret to staying healthy and beautiful? Healthy: Long, strenuous "meditation walks." Keeping a large digital scale in the bathroom, checking it first thing every morning. It's fun to try to guess the weight. If it goes up, think about what I ate yesterday and when. It's a challenge to stay healthy and thin-ish.
Once I read on this site that, "every CD is weight conscious" as a guy was lamenting about going out (of dressing). He complained how he gained weight right away. Except for the every part, I think that's true.
Beautiful? Give me a break.
6. what was your first crossdressing experience? Rocky Horror the show. Not that long ago.
7. when you are dressing up as a woman, like do you do it for sexual thrill or is it more than that like expressing your feminine side? Both. Feminine side more these days, though.
8. what type of activites do you do on your spare time? Other than an earlier post on this thread, sewing and music. I play the sax well and mess around with string instruments in my studio.
9. do you use corsets and padding to create a feminine shape or does it comes all natural to you? I've given it thought but the stuff is expensive if it's the real deal. For me, it would be fun to really squeeze into a dress and pad it out...but only for the experience. Not as a regular thing.
10. do you consider yourself to be a role model/mentor for other crossdressers where they can come to you for advice or are you just your own person? Own person.
Last edited by Robbin_Sinclair; 09-30-2013 at 08:15 AM.
Wow these are very interesting answers, and i am so happy that people found my questionnare to be very helpful for you lovely ladies. It makes me want to come up with some more questions.
Here are more questions
1. Do any of you hate the idea of purging and why?
2. Also has any of you been bullied for being different and how did you deal with it?
3. When you are dressing up as a girl, who do you look up to for inspiration (celebrity or non celebrity)?
4. If you have the house or apartment to yourself, how would you spend your day in your own apartment or home by yourself like would you spend your day as a guy or as a girl and why?
5. Do any of you planning on getting a feminine tattoo anywhere on your body as to show that you have a feminine side?
6. Had you went to an event(gay pride, scc, halloween, etc) as a girl and are you planning on to dress up a girl for future events?
7. When it comes to dating or being in a relationship with a girl or a guy or a crossdresser or transgender, what traits are you looking for?
8. Do you planning on getting laser hair removal in the future?
Thats it for today if anyone has any questions about me feel free to ask
Last edited by tiffanynjcd24; 10-02-2013 at 12:51 AM.
"It makes me want to come up with some more questions."
Tiffany, as I said in my response to your questionnaire, you should write the quizzes for Cosmo!
Anyways, here's my next set of answers:
1. Do any of you hate the idea of purging and why?
Oh the horror!...I can't explain why, but it just gives me the chills. I've done it couple of times and regret it. I look back and think, damn, I still wish I had that or those shoes, etc. Heck I find it hard to toss worn out hose
2. Also has any of you been bullied for being different and how did you deal with it?
I was bullied as a child but for not for being effeminate.. I was just one of those kids who was easy to pick on. I dealt with it by telling my older sister who had big male friends...you can guess what happened to the bullies.
3. When you are dressing up as a girl, who do you look up to for inspiration (celebrity or non celebrity)?
I have never tried to emulate her, but Sophia Loren is one of the most beautiful women in the world...I can only wish.
4. For the gamers are you planning on to get a xbox or ps4 and why?
PS4...pre-ordered and paid for...why (and I'm an Xbox player for years)?...Xbox just did it wrong from the get go...I won't get into it here cuz there is a gaming thread that this can be discussed in.
5. If you have the house or apartment to yourself, how would you spend your day in your own apartment or home by yourself like would you spend your day as a guy or as a girl and why?
Mostly as a female because I can.
6. Do any of you planning on getting a feminine tattoo anywhere on your body as to show that you have a feminine side?
No ink, no metal in my body...I've always been that way.
7. Had you went to an event(gay pride, scc, halloween, etc) as a girl and are you planning on to dress up a girl for future events?
No I haven't. I'd like to attend some sort of event dressed but I need another CD partner to do it with. I'm not ready for solo adventures.
8. When it comes to dating or being in a relationship with a girl or a guy or a crossdresser or transgender, what traits are you looking for?
Ack...that's a tuff one...I might have to get back to you on that one.
9. Do you planning on getting laser hair removal in the future?
No...I don't think I need it. as long as I keep up on my grooming routine.
I sometimes think I'm such a fairy
1. Do any of you hate the idea of purging and why?
Yes, because I like what I have and I really hope I never do.
2. Also has any of you been bullied for being different and how did you deal with it?
I was bullied a lot when I was little, but not anymore. Bak then I cried where as now I don't take people's shit
3. When you are dressing up as a girl, who do you look up to for inspiration (celebrity or non celebrity)?
I've never been inspired by anyone. But I really like the bloger albin in wonderland's makeup it is quite cute n_n
4. If you have the house or apartment to yourself, how would you spend your day in your own apartment or home by yourself like would you spend your day as a guy or as a girl and why?[br]more than likely as a girl because that's just who I am c: If I passed 100% chances are I would never really dress as a boy[/br]
5. Do any of you planning on getting a feminine tattoo anywhere on your body as to show that you have a feminine side?
Feminine? No I'm not big on tattoos and if I get one it's going to be something that has been a big part of my life. The two biggest things are both video games and my girlfriend so I'm thinking of getting a heart container somewhere with our anniversary date in it
6. Had you went to an event(gay pride, scc, halloween, etc) as a girl and are you planning on to dress up a girl for future events?
I've not done anything yet like that but I'll probably join a club at my college soon :P
7. When it comes to dating or being in a relationship with a girl or a guy or a crossdresser or transgender, what traits are you looking for?
I've not dated anyone aside from my girlfriend so I can't help you with that o.e But her traits are that we are both sort of clingy so it works. Honesty with all things c: no lies ever. I also like to put sex aside for until you know you truly want to be with the person. It makes the relationship a lot easier and more fun too
8. Do you planning on getting laser hair removal in the future?
Yes!!! I'm going to for my chest and my face. Shaving my chest is no easy feat and waxing it can be expensive and having ot shave my face all the time is just no good for my skin o.e I can't wait to get it just to be smooth for pretty much always
Hi Tiffany.
1 I don't go out.
2 I am in no way giving up any of it.
3 I only attractive to me.
4 I'm jusy one very happy crossdresser.
5Yes my wife has known for 7 years no one knows but her and the girls here.
Angie
Oh ok thats very cool that you have a supportive girlfriend. Why cant girls be like that?
Anyone else want to answer my questionnaire
Last edited by tiffanynjcd24; 10-04-2013 at 11:53 AM.
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